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Alan Hoffman

Practical, skills-focused therapy for real change

LMFT Washington

Experience
25 years in practice
Focus areas
Stress, Anxiety, Relationship, Parenting
Approaches
Gottman Method, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
Languages
English

About Alan

Alan Hoffman uses practical, skills-based therapy to help people make clear, steady progress. He aims for conversational sessions where clients leave with at least one useful step to try.

Background and approach

Alan is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with 25 years of experience and practices in Washington. He often draws on the Gottman Method alongside Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to address relationship strain and everyday stress.

Sessions include concrete skills practice and short take-home exercises to build new habits between meetings. The focus is on what clients want to change and how to get there in manageable steps.

Alan has a long history of helping people with anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, and parenting concerns. He also supports those dealing with adoption and foster care issues, blended family challenges, and family of origin concerns.

Substance use, communication problems, separation and divorce, and feelings of isolation are among other areas he addresses. His approach is goal-oriented and solution-focused.

Each meeting typically ends with practical suggestions - brief readings, short exercises, or videos - so progress continues outside the session. He favors straightforward talk and clear plans over technical jargon.

Outside his work, Alan brings life experience as a spouse, a parent, a U.S. Army veteran, and a recreational sailor.

Those roles help him relate to the real demands people face between sessions and shape how he frames practical next steps.

How evidence-driven approaches translate to online care

Alan often combines the Gottman Method with Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to help people change patterns and build skills. The Gottman Method focuses on improving how people communicate and resolve conflict, using specific exercises that can be practiced during and between sessions. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy looks at thought patterns and behaviors that keep problems going, and substitutes practical experiments and skill-building to reduce anxiety or depression.

Choosing the right approach is collaborative. The therapist will talk through goals, preferences, and what has or hasn’t worked in the past, then tailor a plan. That plan can mix methods so sessions stay useful and focused on immediate progress.

Online formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging. Video is useful for longer conversations and role-play exercises. Phone sessions are brief and flexible when scheduling is tight. Live chat or text helps with short check-ins, skill prompts, or when someone prefers written communication. These options make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life while keeping treatment practical and goal-oriented.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Alan commonly address?
He helps people with stress, anxiety, relationship challenges, parenting concerns, low self-esteem, and depression, along with related issues like substance use and communication problems.
What is his general therapy style and approach?
Sessions are practical and goal-focused, using conversational talk and concrete exercises. He emphasizes skills practice and short assignments to support change between meetings.
How much clinical experience does he have?
Alan brings 25 years of experience as a clinician, which he combines with life roles like parent and veteran to inform his practical approach to therapy.
What credential does he hold and where is he located?
He is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) licensed in Washington and practices in that state.
Which languages are supported for sessions?
Sessions are offered in English.
What session formats are available online?
He provides video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to suit different needs and schedules.
How does cost and billing work?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with him?
Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a session according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesParenting issuesSelf esteemDepression

Therapeutic approaches

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Gottman MethodMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapySystemic Therapy

Experience

25+ years

Licensed in

Washington

Languages

English