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Alesia Bates

Practical, collaborative therapy for life changes

LCSW Wisconsin

Experience
8 years in practice
Focus areas
Stress, Anxiety, Depression, Coping with life changes
Approaches
Gottman Method, Client-Centered Therapy
Languages
English

About Alesia

Alesia Bates is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) with eight years of clinical experience. She aims to offer a warm, straightforward space for people feeling overwhelmed by stress, anxiety, depression, grief, or big life changes.

Background and approach

Alesia writes and talks plainly with clients so they can focus on practical steps forward. She uses a collaborative approach that centers the person's goals.

Sessions are nonjudgmental and tailored to the individual. Alesia blends techniques from client-centered therapy, cognitive behavioral therapy, dialectical behavior therapy, mindfulness, and the Gottman Method to match what each person needs in the moment.

In sessions she helps people manage symptoms like panic, low mood, sleep trouble, and burnout. She also supports those facing caregiving strain, midlife transitions, end-of-life concerns, and questions about purpose or relationships.

Work often includes skill-building, communication practice, and problem-solving exercises done together in session. Alesia commonly focuses on concrete tools - for example, strategies to reduce worry, steps to improve sleep, or communication techniques to repair tension.

She describes therapy as a partnership, walking alongside people as they make changes. That practical, steady style guides how she plans treatment and measures progress.

She practices from Wisconsin and also sees international clients. Conversations are offered in English and shaped to the pace and needs of each person.

Therapeutic approaches and how they work online

Alesia often uses the Gottman Method to guide work on communication and connection in relationships, focusing on practical exercises that improve how people talk and solve problems together. Client-centered therapy is a second foundation, which centers the person's perspective and priorities so sessions move at their pace. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, is used to identify and change unhelpful thought and behavior patterns that feed anxiety or low mood.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. She will discuss goals and preferences, try methods that seem likely to help, and adjust the plan based on what works. The client and therapist decide together which tools fit the situation and how quickly to move between them.

Online sessions are offered by video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging. Video is useful for longer sessions and skill practice, phone can be a good option when bandwidth is limited, live chat works for shorter check-ins, and messaging allows for ongoing support between sessions. These flexible formats make it easier to fit therapy into busy schedules and changing circumstances.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she help with?
She works with stress, anxiety, depression, grief, coping with life changes, relationship and intimacy-related issues, sleep problems, self-esteem, career and compassion fatigue among other concerns listed.
What is her therapy style like?
Her approach is collaborative and nonjudgmental, blending client-centered methods with practical skills from CBT and DBT and elements of the Gottman Method when relevant.
How much experience does she have?
Alesia has eight years of clinical experience working with adults, young adults, and elders.
What are her credentials and where is she based?
She is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, practicing from Wisconsin.
Are sessions available in other languages or countries?
Sessions are offered in English and she accepts international clients.
Which session formats does she offer?
She sees people by video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging.
How does pricing work?
Cost varies by location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with her?
To get started, select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersSelf esteemCareer difficultiesCompassion fatigue

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Gottman MethodMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

8+ years

Licensed in

Wisconsin

Languages

English