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Anneka Dockery

Calm, practical relationship-focused therapy

LMFT Delaware

Experience
6 years in practice
Focus areas
Stress, Anxiety, Relationship, Intimacy-related issues
Approaches
Gottman Method, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
Languages
English

About Anneka

Anneka Dockery is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) who uses practical, relational approaches to help people manage stress, depression, anxiety, and relationship struggles. She emphasizes warm, down-to-earth conversation and works collaboratively with each person to find useful steps forward.

Background and approach

She draws on relationship-focused methods such as the Gottman Method alongside approaches that address thoughts and behavior like Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. Anneka also uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and Attachment-Based Therapy when these fit a person's needs.

She listens first, then helps people choose tools that match their situation. Anneka has six years of experience in outpatient mental health and has worked in residential treatment settings and foster care counseling.

That background means she has supported people through grief, trauma, parenting challenges, and complex family patterns. She also has experience connected to military life through an internship and personal experience as a military spouse.

Her style is respectful and straightforward. She avoids labels and focuses on what will make life better day to day.

In early sessions she and the client will assess goals and decide which therapy approaches to try. Anneka practices in Delaware and offers work that centers relationships, emotional regulation, and coping with life changes.

She encourages people to take the first step and is willing to help find other resources if a different type of care is needed.

Relationship and Acceptance-Based Care Online

Anneka uses the Gottman Method principles to focus on improving communication, managing conflict, and strengthening emotional connection in relationships. That approach centers on concrete skills couples and partners can practice between sessions to reduce reactivity and improve trust.

She also uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) to help people clarify their values, accept difficult emotions, and take committed action toward meaningful change. ACT is useful for anxiety, depression, and coping with life transitions because it pairs mindfulness with practical behavior changes.

Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. Anneka will listen to your goals and try methods that feel like a good fit, adjusting plans as progress and needs become clearer. She aims to involve clients in deciding which strategies to use rather than prescribing a single path.

Online formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging. Video is helpful for in-depth conversation and observing interactions, phone sessions work well for shorter check-ins or when bandwidth is limited, and text-based options let clients share thoughts between live meetings. These options make it easier to fit therapy into work, family, and daily life while keeping the focus on practical skill building and steady progress.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she address?
She helps with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and intimacy issues, self-esteem, grief, trauma and abuse, anger, career struggles, bipolar challenges, and compassion fatigue among other concerns.
What is her therapeutic style?
She uses a conversational, client-centered style and collaborates with people to choose methods that fit their needs, blending relational and skills-based work.
How much clinical experience does she have?
She has six years of experience working in outpatient mental health, residential treatment, and foster care counseling settings.
Which credentials and locations apply to her practice?
She is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist - LMFT - licensed in Delaware and New Jersey and practices in Delaware.
In which languages can sessions be held?
Sessions are offered in English.
What session formats are offered?
She provides video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to give flexible ways to connect.
How is cost handled?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability and sessions are provided through a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with her?
Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a session based on therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

LGBTFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCompassion fatigue

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyGottman MethodMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

6+ years

Licensed in

New Jersey, Delaware, North Carolina, Virginia

Languages

English