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Bret Patterson

Practical support for stress and relationships

LPC Mississippi

Experience
4 years in practice
Focus areas
Stress, Anxiety, Relationship, Grief
Approaches
Gottman Method, Client-Centered Therapy
Languages
English

About Bret

Bret Patterson is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) who centers his work on building practical tools and clearer communication. He focuses on everyday struggles like stress, anxiety, depression, grief, addiction, and relationship challenges.

Background and approach

His tone is respectful and direct, with an emphasis on collaboration and realistic steps forward. Before becoming a counselor, he spent 25 years as a paramedic and clinical educator.

That background shaped his ability to stay calm in crisis and to explain difficult topics in simple terms. He draws on that experience to keep sessions straightforward and focused on what helps now.

Bret uses several approaches to match a person's needs, including Gottman Method techniques for relationship patterns, cognitive behavioral strategies to shift unhelpful thoughts, and client-centered listening to make space for each person’s story. He also integrates mindfulness and skills from dialectical behavior therapy when they fit the situation.

Sessions are tailored to the individual's goals rather than a one-size-fits-all plan. He typically works with people facing life change, relationship strain, parenting stress, grief, chronic illness, and burnout.

He aims to teach skills that can be used outside sessions so progress continues between meetings. Bret practices in Mississippi and brings four years of counseling experience to his clinical work.

He approaches each person with sensitivity and practical guidance, helping them take the next small steps toward greater well-being.

Approaches for online work and relationship skills

Bret often draws on the Gottman Method to look at interaction patterns and improve communication. That approach focuses on specific behaviors and habits that can make conversations safer and more productive in day-to-day life.

He also uses client-centered therapy, which means listening closely and shaping sessions around what the person says matters most. Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) is another frequent tool - it helps identify and change unhelpful thoughts and the actions that follow, useful for anxiety, depression, and stress management.

Choosing the right approach is a team effort. The therapist will talk with the client about goals, try methods that fit those goals, and adjust based on what works. Goals and preferences guide which techniques are emphasized so the plan feels relevant and usable.

Online therapy offers flexible options: video calls for face-to-face conversation, phone sessions when bandwidth is limited, live chat for quicker check-ins, and text-based messaging for short updates or reflections. These formats make it easier to fit sessions into busy days, continue skill practice between meetings, and pick the mode that best matches each situation.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Bret help with?
He helps people facing stress, anxiety, depression, grief, anger, addictions, relationship and intimacy issues, parenting strain, career stress, and compassion fatigue, among other concerns.
What is his therapeutic style?
He uses a collaborative, practical style that blends client-centered listening with techniques from cognitive behavioral therapy, mindfulness, dialectical behavior therapy, and Gottman Method ideas for relationship patterns.
What experience does he bring?
He has four years of professional counseling experience and previously spent 25 years working as a paramedic and clinical educator, which informs his calm, clear approach.
Where is he licensed and located?
He is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) practicing in Mississippi.
Which languages are used in sessions?
Sessions are offered in English.
Can people outside the country work with him?
He does not accept international clients at this time.
What session formats are available?
He meets via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to fit different schedules and needs.
How are costs and starting steps handled?
Cost varies with location and follows a subscription model that can be canceled at any time; to begin, select the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesGriefAnger managementDepression

Also works with

Additional focus areas

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Gottman MethodMindfulness TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

4+ years

Licensed in

Mississippi

Languages

English