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Dennisha Pauley

Compassionate counselor focused on practical change

LCMHC North Carolina

Experience
10 years in practice
Focus areas
Stress, Anxiety, Trauma and abuse, Grief
Approaches
Gottman Method, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
Languages
English

About Dennisha

Dennisha Pauley is a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor who helps people manage stress, anxiety, depression, and major life changes. She speaks plainly and listens first to understand what matters most.

Background and approach

Her approach aims to make sessions feel respectful and warm so people can talk through hard things without feeling judged. With 10 years of clinical experience and nearly two decades in mental health settings, she draws on a range of methods to match each person’s needs.

She uses Gottman Method ideas for relationship and communication patterns, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) to clarify values and build action, and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) for practical skills. She also uses Client-Centered and Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) approaches when helpful.

Sessions are shaped around the individual’s goals. Dennisha focuses on small, clear steps that can ease daily life - better sleep routines, managing anger, or handling overwhelming emotions.

She also supports work on grief, trauma, ADHD, caregiver stress, chronic illness, and complex mood concerns. Her style is collaborative.

She talks through evidence-based tools but also adapts to each person’s pace and preferences. People can expect straightforward feedback, coping strategies, and check-ins on what’s working.

Dennisha practices in North Carolina as an LCMHC. She offers sessions in English and provides therapy through video calls, phone, live chat, or text-based messaging to fit different schedules and needs.

How therapeutic approaches translate to online care

Gottman Method work focuses on communication patterns, trust, and building practical skills for healthier interactions. It helps people recognize unhelpful cycles and practice concrete behaviors that change how they relate. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, or ACT, centers on clarifying what matters to you and taking small actions toward those values while accepting difficult thoughts and feelings. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, CBT, targets unhelpful thoughts and behaviors, teaching skills to manage mood, anxiety, sleep, and daily routines.

Choosing an approach is collaborative. The therapist will listen to your goals and suggest methods that fit your needs. Together you will try strategies, check what helps, and adjust the plan as you go. The process is flexible and driven by your preferences and progress.

Online formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging. Video sessions allow face-to-face interaction for skill practice and feedback. Phone sessions can work when bandwidth or camera use is difficult. Live chat or text messages suit quick check-ins, brief coaching, or people who prefer writing. These options make it easier to fit therapy into workdays, caregiving schedules, or times when travel is hard, while still working on tangible skills and goals.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does this therapist address?
Dennisha works with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, grief, parenting and career pressures, relationship and intimacy issues, sleeping problems, anger, self-esteem, bipolar disorder, ADHD, and coping with life changes among other concerns.
What is the therapy style like?
Her style is supportive, respectful, and warm. Sessions are collaborative and focus on practical steps tailored to each person’s goals.
How much clinical experience does she have?
She has 10 years of clinical experience as a counselor and has worked in mental health settings for about 19 years overall.
What credentials and where is she licensed?
She holds the LCMHC credential and is licensed in North Carolina as an LCMHC.
Which languages are supported and can international clients join?
Sessions are offered in English. International clients are not currently accepted.
What session formats are available?
Therapy is offered via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to fit different schedules and preferences.
How is cost handled?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with her?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyTrauma and abuseGriefParenting issuesCareer difficulties

Also works with

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersAnger managementSelf esteemBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Gottman MethodMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

10+ years

Licensed in

North Carolina

Languages

English