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Jonnet Cruz

Practical, relationship-focused therapy with an attachment lens

LMFT Hawaii

Experience
20 years in practice
Focus areas
Stress, Anxiety, Relationship, Family
Approaches
Gottman Method, Attachment-Based Therapy
Languages
English

About Jonnet

Jonnet Cruz is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) with 20 years of clinical experience based in Hawaii. She greets clients warmly and focuses on helping people untangle stress, anxiety, relationship strain, grief, and issues with self-esteem.

Background and approach

Her work is practical and down-to-earth, aimed at making small changes that matter in daily life. She draws on several approaches to tailor care to each person.

Jonnet uses the Gottman Method for relationship work alongside attachment-based ideas to address how early bonds shape current patterns. She also uses client-centered principles and cognitive behavioral strategies to help people notice unhelpful thoughts and try new behaviors.

Sessions are collaborative and paced to what each person needs. Jonnet emphasizes that clients know their own story and brings questions and tools to help them try different ways of coping.

She aims for clear steps and realistic goals rather than long lists of theory. Her background includes work across family and relationship concerns, trauma and abuse, addictions, mood disorders, parenting challenges, ADHD, and grief.

With two decades of practice she offers experience with both short-term problem solving and longer-term healing. People who choose Jonnet can expect straightforward conversation, practical skills to use between sessions, and attention to patterns that repeat in relationships.

Sessions are offered in English and scheduled from her Hawaii practice.

Therapeutic approaches you can use online

This therapist combines several approaches that translate well to remote sessions. The Gottman Method focuses on improving communication and reducing conflict in close relationships by teaching clear skills for talking and listening during disagreements. Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early bond patterns influence current relationships and helps people rework those patterns to feel safer and more connected. Client-Centered Therapy places the client at the center of the work, with the therapist offering empathic listening and reflection so the person can find their own solutions.

Finding the right approach is part of the work together. Jonnet will talk with clients about their goals, try techniques in session, and adjust methods based on what feels most helpful. This collaborative process helps match tools to each person's needs and preferences rather than relying on one fixed method.

Online formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging. Video lets people use nonverbal cues and practice conversations in real time. Phone sessions can be a good shorter check-in when bandwidth is limited. Live chat and messaging support quick reflections, coaching between sessions, or ongoing check-ins when a full session isn't needed. These options make scheduling easier and let people fit therapy around work, family, and travel.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Jonnet commonly address?
She helps people with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and family issues, trauma and abuse, addictions, grief, self-esteem, intimacy concerns, ADHD, and related challenges.
What is her general therapy style?
Her style is collaborative and down-to-earth, blending conversation with practical tools from approaches like the Gottman Method, attachment work, CBT, and DBT.
How much clinical experience does she have?
Jonnet has 20 years of professional experience working with a range of relationship, mood, trauma, and behavioral concerns.
What credentials and location are listed?
She holds the LMFT credential and is licensed in Hawaii and Florida, practicing from Hawaii for this profile.
Which languages are supported and can she work internationally?
Sessions are offered in English. She does not take international clients through this profile.
What session formats are available?
Jonnet offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to provide flexible ways to meet.
How is cost handled for sessions?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with her?
Click the Start Therapy button, fill out a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseSelf esteem

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Gottman MethodMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family SystemsSystemic Therapy

Experience

20+ years

Licensed in

Hawaii, Florida

Languages

English