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Julie Schindhelm

Compassionate, practical help for stress and relationships

LCSW Pennsylvania

Experience
22 years in practice
Focus areas
Stress, Anxiety, Relationship, Family
Approaches
Gottman Method, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
Languages
English

About Julie

Julie Schindhelm is a licensed clinical social worker with 22 years in mental health. She brings long experience helping people face stress, anxiety, relationship questions, and life transitions.

Background and approach

Julie uses clear, practical steps so conversations feel focused and useful from the start. She helps people sort through relationship and communication problems using principles from the Gottman Method alongside emotion-focused work.

For individuals she draws on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to tackle anxious thoughts and on Dialectical Behavior Therapy to build stress tolerance and coping skills. Sessions often begin by identifying one or two clear goals.

Julie works with people to reduce overwhelm, manage mood symptoms like depression or bipolar episodes, and address trauma and grief. She also supports clients dealing with parenting strain, fertility concerns, postpartum challenges, and issues around intimacy and sexual health.

Practical problem solving is a common thread in her work. That can mean learning breathing and grounding skills, changing unhelpful thinking patterns, or practicing new communication habits with a partner.

She also addresses career stress, social anxiety, self-esteem, and isolation. Julie conducts sessions in English and provides video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging.

Her approach aims to produce steady, manageable change so people can return to daily life with clearer choices and more effective habits.

How Julie’s Approaches Translate to Online Therapy

Julie integrates the Gottman Method with individual therapies to address relationship and emotional problems. The Gottman-informed work focuses on practical communication skills, identifying negative patterns between partners, and rebuilding connection through specific exercises that can be practiced between sessions. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people clarify values and take committed action even when uncomfortable thoughts or feelings are present; it is useful for coping with life changes and persistent worry.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is used to find and change unhelpful thoughts and behaviors. It is straightforward and works well for anxiety, panic, and many mood concerns by teaching concrete skills like thought records and behavioral experiments. Julie will work together with each person to decide which approaches to use based on their goals and preferences, so the therapy plan fits their life and what they want to change.

Online sessions are offered by video call, phone, live chat, or text-based messaging to make therapy flexible. Video is good for longer sessions and role-play or skills practice. Phone sessions are helpful when bandwidth is limited or for brief check-ins. Live chat and text messaging can be useful for short updates, coaching between sessions, or when someone prefers typing to speaking. These options let people fit care into work, parenting, or busy schedules.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she help with?
She works with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, trauma and abuse, grief, parenting concerns, and many related issues such as eating and sleeping problems, anger, and career stress.
What is her therapeutic style and approach?
She uses practical, goal-oriented work drawing on Gottman principles for relationships, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for anxious thoughts, and Dialectical Behavior Therapy for stress tolerance skills.
How much clinical experience does she have?
Julie has 22 years of experience in the mental health field supporting adults and adolescents through a range of challenges.
Where is she licensed and based?
She holds the credential LCSW, licensed in Pennsylvania.
Does she offer sessions in other languages or to international clients?
Sessions are offered in English and she is not accepting international clients at this time.
What formats are available for sessions?
She offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to fit different schedules and communication preferences.
How does payment or cost work?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with her?
Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseDepression

Also works with

LGBTGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Gottman MethodMindfulness TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

22+ years

Licensed in

Pennsylvania

Languages

English