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Lesley Smith

Therapist focused on practical relationship work

LCMHC North Carolina

Experience
25 years in practice
Focus areas
Stress, Anxiety, Relationship, Self esteem
Approaches
Gottman Method, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
Languages
English

About Lesley

Lesley Smith, LCMHC, brings 25 years of clinical experience to her counseling work in North Carolina. She focuses on stress, anxiety, depression, relationship concerns, and self-esteem.

Background and approach

Lesley uses practical, person-focused methods to help people take meaningful steps forward. Her style is warm and client-centered.

She listens first, then helps people identify small, doable changes. Sessions often focus on clearer communication, stronger boundaries, and coping skills for day-to-day stressors.

Lesley uses a mix of approaches to match each person's needs. She draws on the Gottman Method for relationship skills, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to clarify values and build psychological flexibility, and Attachment-Based ideas to explore how early bonds affect current patterns.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy tools often appear when working on anxiety, mood, or unhelpful thinking. Clients can expect straightforward, practical goals.

Lesley helps people break down big problems into steps they can try between sessions. She also supports work on life transitions, career stress, grief, and compassion fatigue.

Lesley holds the Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor credential, LCMHC. She offers sessions in English and provides several online formats including video calls, phone, live chat, and text messaging.

To begin, a client completes a short matching questionnaire and schedules a session according to availability.

Online therapy with relationship and values-based approaches

Lesley combines Gottman-informed work with Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and Attachment-Based ideas to guide online sessions. The Gottman-informed approach focuses on improving communication, managing conflict, and rebuilding connection through specific skills and practical exercises. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy helps people clarify what matters to them and build actions aligned with those values while learning new ways to respond to difficult thoughts and feelings. Attachment-Based Therapy looks at patterns of relating that come from early relationships and how those patterns show up in adult life and close connections.

Finding the right approach is part of the process. Lesley collaborates with each person to decide which methods fit their goals, needs, and comfort level. She will suggest a plan, check in about how techniques are working, and adapt strategies as progress unfolds.

Online formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging. Video is useful for longer sessions and interactive exercises, while phone calls can work better when bandwidth is limited. Live chat and text messaging are helpful for brief check-ins, coaching-style support, or when someone prefers not to be on camera. These options make it easier to fit therapy into busy schedules and varied life demands.

Frequently asked questions

What issues does Lesley commonly address?
She helps people with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship challenges, self-esteem, grief, trauma and abuse, and career or life transitions.
What is Lesley’s therapy style like?
Her approach is client-centered and compassionate, focusing on listening, practical steps, and building skills that can be used between sessions.
How much clinical experience does she have?
Lesley has 25 years of professional experience working in mental health settings and independent practice.
What credentials and location are listed?
She is a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor (LCMHC) and practices in North Carolina.
Which languages and international options are available?
Sessions are offered in English and Lesley is not accepting international clients.
What session formats does she offer?
Therapy is available via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to fit different schedules and needs.
How are sessions billed and what do they cost?
Costs vary with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
How do I get started with Lesley?
Choose the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions based on the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesSelf esteemDepressionCoaching

Also works with

LGBTFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCompassion fatigue

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Gottman MethodImago Relationship TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

25+ years

Licensed in

North Carolina

Languages

English