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Melissa Schreiber

Experienced counselor focused on relationships and wellbeing

LCMHC North Carolina

Experience
20 years in practice
Focus areas
Stress, Anxiety, Addictions, Relationship
Approaches
Gottman Method, Client-Centered Therapy
Languages
English

About Melissa

Melissa Schreiber is a licensed clinical mental health counselor who helps people facing stress, anxiety, depression, addictions, grief, and relationship struggles. She brings 20 years of experience and a calm, direct approach that many clients find grounding when life feels overwhelming.

Background and approach

Her work focuses on practical changes and clearer communication. Sessions often center on understanding what triggers strong reactions and learning small steps that reduce conflict and ease daily stress.

Melissa pays attention to intimacy concerns, attachment wounds, and patterns that keep people stuck. She uses a mix of familiar approaches to match each person’s needs.

That can include skills to manage thoughts and behavior, attention to emotions in the moment, and methods that target relationship patterns. The Gottman Method is one of the approaches she uses with people seeking to improve interaction and connection.

Melissa describes her style as empathetic and goal-oriented. She helps people notice patterns from their family of origin, work through shame or guilt, and build healthier boundaries.

Practical coping skills are paired with chances to reflect on meaning and values. Clients can expect straightforward conversation, concrete tools to try between sessions, and ongoing review of what helps.

Melissa works with a wide range of concerns including trauma and abuse, domestic violence, substance issues, gender dysphoria, hospice and end-of-life counseling, and communication problems. She practices from North Carolina and offers care in English.

Approaches that translate well to online therapy

Melissa often draws on the Gottman Method to identify interaction patterns and teach concrete communication skills that reduce conflict and increase connection. That approach focuses on what people do in conversations and gives clear steps to change those habits.

She also uses Client-Centered Therapy, which emphasizes listening, empathy, and meeting people where they are. This approach helps people feel heard and build self-understanding before making changes. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is used to spot unhelpful thoughts and try small behavioral experiments that change mood and functioning.

Deciding which approach to use is a collaborative process. The therapist will work together with the client to match methods to goals, needs, and personal preferences. Plans are adjusted over time based on what is most useful.

Online sessions are offered through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging. Video is helpful for role-play and reading body language, phone calls can fit a short check-in or low-bandwidth situations, and chat or text messaging can work for quick reflections or brief support between sessions. These options make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life and to keep continuity when schedules change.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does Melissa help with?
She supports people dealing with stress, anxiety, depression, addictions, grief, relationship and intimacy issues, trauma and abuse, anger, and coping with life changes.
What is Melissa's therapeutic style?
Her style is empathetic and goal-focused, combining practical skills work with emotional exploration to reduce conflict and increase clarity.
How much clinical experience does she have?
Melissa brings 20 years of experience as a licensed clinician in North Carolina and has worked with a wide range of emotional and relationship concerns.
What credentials and where is she licensed?
She holds the credential LCMHC and is licensed as an NC LCMHC in North Carolina.
Can sessions be conducted in other languages or internationally?
Sessions are offered in English and international clients are accepted.
What session formats are available?
Therapy is offered via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to suit different needs and schedules.
How is cost handled for sessions?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
What are the first steps to start working together?
Choose the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsRelationship issuesFamily conflictsDepression

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyGottman MethodMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

20+ years

Licensed in

North Carolina

Languages

English