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Vanessa Statam

Practical therapy for stress and relationships

LCSW Wisconsin

Experience
7 years in practice
Focus areas
Stress, Anxiety, Relationship, Trauma and abuse
Approaches
Gottman Method, Client-Centered Therapy
Languages
English

About Vanessa

Vanessa Statam is a licensed clinical social worker in Wisconsin who helps people facing stress, anxiety, relationship concerns, trauma, low self-esteem, and depression. She speaks plainly and aims to make the first step feel manageable for someone who is worried or uncertain.

Background and approach

She keeps sessions focused on what matters most to the client. Vanessa encourages open conversation and listens for patterns that get in the way of daily life, like avoidance, self-criticism, or trouble communicating.

She works with clients to set clear, doable goals and to try small changes between sessions. Her background includes seven years of professional experience providing psychotherapy in Wisconsin.

Vanessa uses a mix of clinical approaches to match different needs, drawing on practical strategies to reduce anxiety and improve mood, alongside deeper work on attachment and relationship patterns. She also incorporates methods aimed at processing traumatic memories and increasing emotional safety in relationships.

Sessions are collaborative; clients help choose which tools to try and how fast to move. Vanessa explains options in plain language and helps people weigh what feels most useful.

Many people come to her wanting clearer communication, less reactivity, and more confidence. She supports clients through concrete skill building and reflective conversations so they can make steady progress toward everyday changes.

Approaches and online care that fit your life

Gottman Method centers on practical tools to improve communication and reduce patterns that cause conflict in close relationships. It often includes exercises to strengthen connection and manage disagreements. Client-Centered Therapy focuses on listening and understanding the person’s experience, helping people feel heard as they decide what changes they want to make. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, looks at how thoughts and behaviors influence feelings, and uses structured techniques to reduce anxiety and improve mood.

Deciding which approach to use is a shared process. The therapist will talk with the client about current struggles, goals, and preferences, and then recommend a blend of methods. Sessions can shift over time as progress or new needs emerge, so the plan is adjusted collaboratively.

Online therapy offers flexible options like video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging. Video is useful for face-to-face conversation and teaching skills. Phone sessions can work when bandwidth is limited or a shorter check-in is needed. Live chat and text messaging let people check in between sessions or use therapy without scheduling a full call. These formats make it easier to fit sessions around work, caregiving, or travel while still working with licensed professionals.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does Vanessa help with?
She helps people who are struggling with stress, anxiety, relationship concerns, trauma and abuse, self-esteem, and depression, plus related issues like attachment and communication problems.
What is her general therapy style?
Sessions are collaborative and client-centered, with a balance of practical skills and reflective conversation to address symptoms and underlying patterns.
How much clinical experience does she have?
Vanessa has seven years of professional experience providing psychotherapy in Wisconsin.
What credential and location should I know about?
She holds the credential LCSW and practices in Wisconsin.
Which languages and international clients are supported?
Sessions are offered in English and she accepts international clients.
What session formats are available?
Therapy is offered by video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to fit different schedules and needs.
How does billing and cost work?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
What are the first steps to begin therapy?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions based on therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Existential TherapyEye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Gottman MethodHypnotherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

7+ years

Licensed in

Wisconsin

Languages

English