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Alona Perlin

Practical, calm therapy for life’s hard moments

LCSW New York

Experience
15 years in practice
Focus areas
Stress, Anxiety, Relationship, Trauma and abuse
Approaches
Gottman Method, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
Languages
English, Russian

About Alona

Alona Perlin is a licensed clinical social worker who helps people feeling overwhelmed by anxiety, depression, grief, or life transitions. She offers a calm, down-to-earth presence and focuses on listening first so clients can talk without judgment.

Background and approach

Sessions are practical and grounded, with a mix of feedback and tools to help people cope day to day. With 15 years of experience, Alona draws on several approaches to match each person’s needs.

She uses Gottman Method principles when relationship patterns are part of the concern and blends Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to help people clarify values and take small steps forward. Attachment-based work and cognitive behavioral techniques are used to address how past experiences shape current patterns.

Alona works with a wide range of issues including stress, trauma and abuse, addictions, self-esteem, and communication problems. She also supports people dealing with adoption and foster care questions, caregiver stress, body image, and attachment concerns.

The work aims to help clients feel more grounded, understood, and able to manage what life brings. Sessions are offered in English and Russian for people located in New York.

Alona provides a steady, practical approach that moves at each person’s pace. Her style is straightforward and compassionate, focusing on what will make daily life a little easier.

In early sessions she asks about what brought someone to therapy, gathers background, and sets clear, manageable goals. From there she tailors tools and conversation so the work fits the person rather than forcing a one-size-fits-all plan.

Therapeutic approaches adapted for online work

Alona uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to help people notice what matters to them and take small steps toward those values. ACT often focuses on making room for hard feelings while moving toward meaningful action. She also uses Attachment-Based Therapy to look at how early caregiving patterns affect current relationships and emotional reactions, helping clients recognize patterns and practice new ways of relating.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Alona collaborates with each person to pick methods that match their goals, comfort level, and pace. She adjusts strategies as therapy progresses so the plan stays practical and relevant to what the client wants to achieve.

Online sessions are offered via video calls, phone, live chat, or text-based messaging to make care easier to fit into daily life. Video lets people see nonverbal cues during longer conversations, phone can be used when bandwidth is low, and chat or messaging can work for quick check-ins or shorter reflections. These options give flexibility for different schedules and communication preferences while keeping the focus on steady therapeutic progress.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she commonly address?
She works with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, grief, addictions, and self-esteem issues, among other related concerns.
What is her therapeutic style?
Sessions combine listening, practical feedback, and hands-on tools. She adapts methods to each person so work feels useful and grounded.
How much clinical experience does she have?
Alona has 15 years of experience as a clinician offering outpatient care and telehealth-based sessions.
What are her credentials and location?
She is an LCSW licensed in New Jersey and New York and practices with clients located in New York.
Which languages are supported?
Sessions are offered in English and Russian.
Can international clients work with her?
International clients are not currently accepted.
What session formats are available?
She offers online care through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging.
How does the subscription and cost work?
Cost varies with location and therapist arrangements; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyGottman MethodImago Relationship TherapyJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

15+ years

Licensed in

New York, New Jersey

Languages

English, Russian