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Dr. Amanda Baker

Empathetic, practical therapy for relationship and life strain

LMFT New York

Experience
10 years in practice
Focus areas
Stress, Anxiety, Relationship, Family
Approaches
Gottman Method, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
Languages
English

About Amanda

Dr. Amanda Baker is a licensed marriage and family therapist who helps people facing stress, anxiety, relationship strain, trauma, and questions about intimacy.

Background and approach

She writes and talks plainly, aiming to make the first steps feel manageable for someone worried and short on time. She focuses on practical, client-centered care.

Sessions begin by finding what matters most to the person and setting clear, reachable goals. Dr.

Baker draws on approaches like the Gottman Method and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to shape sessions around communication, values, and coping skills. Her style is collaborative and direct.

She listens for patterns in relationships and attachment, then offers tools to change unhelpful cycles. That can mean practicing new ways to talk, learning strategies to reduce anxiety, or identifying values that guide decisions about work and family.

Over ten years she has worked with issues ranging from depression and grief to addiction and sexual concerns. She also addresses concerns like body image, codependency, infidelity, blended family stress, and compassion fatigue.

The work blends practical skill-building with attention to how early relationships affect current behavior. Sessions use plain language and concrete steps.

People can expect a mix of short-term focused work and deeper conversations about patterns and values. Dr.

Baker aims to help clients leave sessions with clear ideas they can try between meetings.

How her approaches translate to online therapy

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, or ACT, focuses on identifying personal values and taking small committed steps toward them while learning to live with uncomfortable thoughts or feelings. It can help with anxiety, depression, stress, and decisions about relationships or work. Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early relationship patterns shape current reactions and connection needs; it helps people understand closeness, trust, and recurring conflicts. The Gottman Method emphasizes communication patterns and practical exercises to improve how people talk about problems and rebuild connection in relationships.

Choosing the best approach is part of the work. Dr. Baker will talk with each person about goals, preferences, and what feels most useful, then adapt techniques from these methods. That collaboration helps shape a plan that fits the person's pace and situation rather than using one fixed method.

Online formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging, offering flexibility for different days and energy levels. Video sessions allow face-to-face conversation and practice of communication skills. Phone sessions can be a good shorter check-in or require less bandwidth. Live chat and messaging suit brief check-ins, journaling between sessions, or people who prefer writing to speaking. Overall, these options make it easier to fit therapy into work, family life, and busy schedules.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does this therapist help with?
She helps people with stress, anxiety, relationship strain, trauma and abuse, intimacy issues, addictions, depression, career concerns, parenting strain, ADHD, and related topics.
What kind of therapy style can I expect?
The approach is client-centered and collaborative. Sessions combine practical skill teaching with attention to emotions and relationship patterns.
How much clinical experience does she have?
Dr. Baker has ten years of clinical experience working across a range of relationship and trauma-related concerns.
What are her credentials and where is she based?
She holds the LMFT credential and practices in New York.
Which languages are supported for sessions?
Sessions are offered in English.
Can people outside the country work with her?
International clients are not currently accepted.
What session formats are available?
She offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to fit different needs and schedules.
How are costs and scheduling handled?
Costs vary with location and therapist availability and use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time; start by completing a short matching questionnaire and then schedule according to availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyGottman MethodMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family SystemsSystemic Therapy

Experience

10+ years

Licensed in

New York

Languages

English