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Ayinde Reid

Practical, strengths-based therapy for life's challenges

LCSW Florida

Experience
15 years in practice
Focus areas
Stress, Anxiety, Relationship, Trauma and abuse
Approaches
Gottman Method, Client-Centered Therapy
Languages
English

About Ayinde

Ayinde Reid is a licensed clinical social worker in Florida with 15 years of professional experience. He helps people manage stress, anxiety, depression, and addiction while guiding those facing relationship and intimacy-related difficulties.

Background and approach

He emphasizes practical steps and a respectful, strengths-based approach. He believes clients are the experts on their own lives and that therapy is a collaboration.

Sessions focus on identifying what is working, naming barriers, and trying small, manageable changes. Work may include talking through patterns, learning skills to cope with strong emotions, and building steadier routines.

Ayinde draws on multiple approaches to match each person’s needs. He uses client-centered ideas to keep the work grounded in what the client wants.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy helps when unhelpful thoughts and behaviors get in the way. For people impacted by traumatic experiences he may bring in EMDR techniques alongside emotion-focused work to help process painful memories.

He also uses Gottman Method ideas when relationship patterns and interaction habits are part of the concern. His practice covers a wide range of life issues including parenting stress, grief, career transitions, ADHD, compassion fatigue, and chronic health struggles.

Ayinde aims to create a straightforward space where people can test new ways of coping and see what helps them move forward.

How therapeutic approaches translate to online care

Ayinde commonly integrates Gottman Method ideas, Client-Centered Therapy, and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy in online work. Gottman Method ideas focus on communication habits and patterns between people and can help when interaction cycles cause repeated conflict. Client-Centered Therapy centers sessions on the client’s priorities, using active listening and reflection to make sure the work stays relevant. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy looks at thoughts and behaviors that keep problems going and teaches concrete skills to change them.

Choosing the right approach is part of the process. Ayinde will work together with each person to identify goals and try methods that match those goals and preferences. That collaborative stance helps adjust the plan as needs change over time.

Online formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging. Video sessions allow face-to-face conversation and real-time feedback. Phone sessions use less bandwidth and can be easier for shorter check-ins. Live chat and text messaging make it possible to check in between sessions, track progress, and get brief coaching when schedules are tight. These options aim to make therapy more flexible and easier to fit into everyday life.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does Ayinde work with?
He helps people with stress, anxiety, depression, addictions, relationship and intimacy-related concerns, trauma and abuse, self-esteem, grief, parenting stress, career changes, ADHD, and related issues.
What is his therapeutic style like?
He takes a collaborative, strengths-based approach that emphasizes practical steps. Sessions mix listening, skill-building, and small experiments to try between meetings.
How much experience does he have?
He has 15 years of professional experience working with a broad range of concerns across clinical settings.
Where is he licensed and based?
He is a licensed clinical social worker with an LCSW in Florida and practices from that state.
What languages are supported and can international clients work together?
Sessions are offered in English, and he does accept international clients.
Which session formats are offered?
Sessions can be held via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to fit different schedules and needs.
How does billing and cost work?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
What are the first steps to begin therapy?
Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTraumatic brain injuryVisually impairedWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Gottman MethodMotivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

15+ years

Licensed in

Florida

Languages

English