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CJ Portrait of Dr. Charles Tullis, Jr.

Dr. Charles Tullis, Jr.

Relationship-focused therapist with broad experience

LMFT, LCMFT Kansas

Experience
36 years in practice
Focus areas
Stress, Anxiety, Relationship, Family
Approaches
Gottman Method, Attachment-Based Therapy
Languages
English

About Charles

Dr. Charles Tullis, Jr. uses relationship-focused methods to help people manage stress, anxiety, depression, and relationship struggles.

Background and approach

He draws on approaches like the Gottman Method and attachment-based work to improve communication and closeness. He has 36 years of experience and practices in Kansas as an LMFT and LCMFT.

He helps people who are coping with life changes, parenting strain, intimacy problems, and issues around self-esteem. He also works with concerns such as ADHD, anger, infidelity, blended family challenges, and fatherhood issues.

Sessions include goal-setting together so therapy focuses on what matters most to the client. His style is people-centered and collaborative.

He combines practical skill-building with reflection about family patterns and life history. Typical in-session work includes practicing communication skills, role-playing difficult conversations, and assigning between-session exercises.

Dr. Tullis emphasizes examining family relationships and social context as resources for change.

He uses tools from cognitive behavioral work, narrative techniques, and motivational interviewing as needed. Homework is used regularly to help ideas from sessions carry into daily life.

Clients can expect straightforward guidance and steady support aimed at clearer communication and healthier relationship patterns. He works with individuals and couples on challenges such as commitment worries, control issues, abandonment or attachment concerns, and finding a stronger sense of life purpose.

Approaches that translate to online work

Gottman Method work focuses on improving communication and reducing negative interaction patterns. Online sessions can include guided conversations, practical exercises, and coaching to help partners reconnect and handle conflicts more constructively.

Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early relationships shape current bonds and emotional reactions. In telehealth sessions this approach helps people notice attachment patterns and practice new ways of asking for support and closeness.

Client-Centered Therapy prioritizes the person's own goals and experience, with the therapist offering empathy and reflective listening. This collaborative stance helps clients set the pace of change and shape goals that matter to them.

Choosing the right approach is a joint process. The therapist will work with the client to decide which methods fit their needs, goals, and preferences, and will adapt as the work progresses.

Online therapy offers flexibility and practical benefits. Video calls let the therapist and client role-play and coach in real time. Phone sessions use less bandwidth and can be easier when a quick check-in is needed. Live chat and text sessions support shorter check-ins, ongoing reflections, and written reminders of strategies between meetings.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does he address?
He helps with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and intimacy issues, parenting and family challenges, ADHD, anger, self esteem, and coping with life changes among other concerns.
What is his therapeutic style like?
He practices a people-centered, collaborative approach that mixes skill-building with exploration of family patterns and life history to address the problems clients bring.
How long has he worked in this field?
He brings 36 years of experience, including military service and federal employment, to his clinical work and perspective.
What credentials and location are listed?
He holds LMFT and LCMFT credentials and practices in Kansas with those licensure designations.
Which languages and international care are supported?
Sessions are offered in English and international clients are not currently accepted.
What session formats are available?
He offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to accommodate different needs and schedules.
How does cost and billing work?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions are arranged through a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with him?
Start by clicking the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsIntimacy-related issuesDepression

Also works with

LGBTParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCoping with life changesADHD

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Gottman MethodMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

36+ years

Licensed in

Kansas, Louisiana, Georgia

Languages

English