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David Coalter

Practical, evidence-based therapy for adults

LPC Missouri

Experience
20 years in practice
Focus areas
Addictions, Trauma and abuse, Parenting
Approaches
Gottman Method, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
Languages
English

About David

David Coalter is a licensed professional counselor who offers straightforward, practical therapy rooted in evidence-based methods. He works with adults to address trauma, addiction, mood struggles, and relationship patterns.

Background and approach

He focuses on clear strategies that aim to reduce symptoms and improve daily functioning. He emphasizes restoring how the nervous system responds after trauma and helping people regain emotional balance.

Sessions often include tools to manage anxiety, anger, and mood swings. He also helps people rebuild healthier ways of relating after hurt and broken trust.

David uses approaches that include Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, and the Gottman Method to guide conversations and strategies. He adapts techniques to each person’s goals and pace, explaining steps in plain language and focusing on practical change.

With 20 years of experience and an MO LPC license, he draws on clinical knowledge and real-world problem solving. He addresses concerns such as depression, bipolar mood patterns, addictions, grief, sleep and eating problems, and coping with life changes.

Additional focus areas include attachment and family-of-origin issues, fatherhood topics, first responder stress, and forgiveness work. Expect direct, goal-focused sessions that aim to restore functioning and help people author a life they value.

David helps clients translate insight into everyday habits and relationships that feel more manageable and meaningful.

How therapeutic methods translate to online care

David blends the Gottman Method, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to shape online sessions that focus on change and connection. The Gottman Method offers concrete exercises to improve how people relate and communicate. It helps identify interaction patterns and practice new ways of relating in real time. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, or ACT, teaches people to notice painful thoughts and feelings without being driven by them, then take value-driven action. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy focuses on identifying unhelpful thoughts and shifting behaviors to reduce anxiety, depression, and mood symptoms.

Choosing an approach is collaborative. The therapist will talk through goals, personal preferences, and what has worked or not worked before. Together they decide which methods to try and adjust them as progress is made, so the plan fits the client’s life and needs.

Online options include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to fit different schedules and situations. Video sessions allow face-to-face interaction for skill practice and feedback. Phone sessions are useful when bandwidth is limited or a quieter setup is needed. Live chat and text messaging support brief check-ins, coaching-style prompts, or ongoing reflection between sessions, offering flexibility for busy lives.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does he help address?
He works with adults on trauma recovery, addictions, depression, anxiety, anger, grief, sleep and eating problems, and relationship issues.
What is his therapy style like?
His approach is direct and practical, using evidence-based techniques to teach skills and solve problems rather than offering quick fixes.
How long has he practiced?
He brings 20 years of clinical experience to his work with adults and uses that background to shape treatment plans.
What credentials does he hold and where is he based?
He holds an MO LPC credential and is located in Missouri.
Can sessions be done in languages other than English?
Sessions are offered in English.
What formats are available for meeting online?
He offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to meet different needs.
How does payment work and what are costs like?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin therapy with him?
Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

AddictionsTrauma and abuseParenting issuesAnger management

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersSelf esteemBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigue

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Existential TherapyGottman MethodMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

20+ years

Licensed in

Missouri

Languages

English