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Eileen Madden

Practical, compassionate care for overwhelming emotions

LPC New Jersey

Experience
13 years in practice
Focus areas
Stress, Anxiety, Relationship, Family
Approaches
Gottman Method, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
Languages
English, Spanish

About Eileen

Eileen Madden is a licensed professional counselor who focuses on helping people who feel overwhelmed, stuck, or disconnected from themselves. She meets people where they are and helps them build self-compassion and practical ways to feel steadier in day-to-day life.

Background and approach

Sessions aim to make strong feelings easier to understand rather than let them define a person. She guides clients to notice how difficult emotions often protect us, and then to respond with curiosity instead of harsh judgment.

Working with bodily awareness and simple somatic practices is part of her approach for grounding and calming. Eileen uses clear techniques so people can try new habits between sessions and notice small changes quickly.

Eileen earned her undergraduate and masters degrees from Boston College. Over 13 years she has worked in outpatient settings, partial hospitalization, and in-home care.

Her clinical work has included supporting people across many stages of life and a wide range of concerns such as anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, and stress-related issues. She combines several therapeutic approaches to match the needs of each person, including methods that focus on emotions, thought patterns, and personal values.

Eileen also pays attention to how physical health and movement affect mood and coping. Outside work she keeps active as a runner and boxing instructor and values travel and community service experiences.

Eileen offers sessions in English and Spanish from New Jersey and accepts international clients. Her practical, warm style emphasizes small, manageable steps toward feeling more present and connected.

Therapeutic approaches and online care that fit your life

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, or ACT, helps people clarify what matters most and then take small steps toward those values despite painful thoughts or feelings. It is useful for anxiety, depression, and life transitions where motivation or meaning feels unclear.

Attachment-Based Therapy focuses on how early relationships shape current patterns. It can help people notice relational pulls, repair connection, and build more supported ways of relating to themselves and others.

Finding the right mix of approaches is part of the work. The therapist will talk with each person about their needs, goals, and preferences and then collaborate on which methods to use. That way sessions match what the client wants to work on and how they prefer to proceed.

Online formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging. Video is good for in-depth conversation and visual cues, phone works well for lower bandwidth or a shorter check-in, live chat can suit quick reflections, and messaging supports ongoing updates between sessions. These options make it easier to fit therapy into a busy schedule and to keep momentum while working toward goals.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does she address?
She supports people coping with anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, stress, grief, addictions, relationship and intimacy issues, parenting and family concerns, ADHD, and related struggles listed in her profile.
What is her general therapeutic style?
She uses a compassionate, practical approach that combines emotion-focused work, values-based strategies, and attention to bodily awareness to help people manage strong feelings and change unhelpful habits.
How much clinical experience does she have?
Eileen has 13 years of clinical experience working in outpatient care, partial hospitalization, and in-home settings supporting a wide range of concerns.
What are her credentials and where is she based?
She holds the LPC credential and practices from New Jersey as listed in her profile.
Which languages are available for sessions?
Sessions are offered in English and Spanish, and she also accepts international clients.
What session formats are offered?
She works with video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to fit different needs and schedules.
How are sessions paid for and what does cost look like?
Session cost varies with location and therapist arrangements; services use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with her?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseDepression

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHearing impairedHIV / AIDSHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTraumatic brain injuryTrichotillomaniaVisually impairedWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyGottman MethodImago Relationship TherapyJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family SystemsSystemic Therapy

Experience

13+ years

Licensed in

New Jersey

Languages

English, Spanish