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Elliott Skaggs

Warm, practical therapy for self-esteem and relationships

LMHC, LPC New York

Experience
8 years in practice
Focus areas
Self esteem
Approaches
Gottman Method, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
Languages
English

About Elliott

Elliott Skaggs is a licensed mental health counselor who practices in New York. He brings eight years of clinical experience to work with people facing self-esteem and identity concerns.

Background and approach

Elliott aims to be warm and direct, helping clients name what matters and take manageable steps forward. Elliott uses a blend of practical, evidence-based methods to help people develop self-compassion and better emotion regulation.

He often combines acceptance-focused practices with skills for handling strong feelings and changing unhelpful habits. Sessions emphasize clear goals and small, doable experiments between meetings.

In the therapy room Elliott works to build a trusting connection while also encouraging accountability. He listens for patterns in relationships and self-talk, then helps clients try different responses.

Many clients learn to notice old habits, tolerate discomfort, and test new ways of relating to themselves and others. He works with concerns like attachment issues, body image, commitment worries, communication problems, and struggles around forgiveness and guilt.

Elliott also supports people dealing with substance use, mood disorder symptoms, panic, and questions about life purpose. Elliott aims to make therapy accessible and culturally responsive.

He uses his training as a New York LMHC and a South Carolina licensed professional counselor to guide sessions, and he adapts tools to fit each person’s background and goals.

Therapeutic approaches and online options for emotional growth

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice their inner thoughts and feelings without getting stuck in them, and then take values-based steps forward. It can be useful for low self-esteem, anxiety, and life direction questions. Attachment-Based Therapy focuses on relationship patterns learned early in life and how those patterns show up now; it helps people understand closeness, trust, and emotional reactivity in relationships.

Finding the right approach is a team effort. Elliott will collaborate with each person to choose or combine methods based on goals, comfort, and the problems at hand. He aims to tailor exercises and homework so they fit daily life and move the work forward at a steady pace.

Online therapy offers several practical benefits. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation and visual cues for deeper emotional work. Phone sessions can be a lower-bandwidth option or easier when being on camera is tiring. Live chat and text messaging are useful for brief check-ins, skill reminders, or when someone needs flexible support between sessions. These options make it easier to fit therapy into busy routines and to keep momentum on personal goals.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Elliott address?
Elliott helps people with self-esteem and identity concerns. He also addresses attachment issues, body image, commitment and communication problems, substance use, mood and panic symptoms, infidelity, and related challenges.
How would you describe his therapeutic style?
He combines a warm, empathetic stance with clear goal-setting and accountability. Sessions mix acceptance-based work with concrete skills practice for emotion regulation and behavior change.
What is his experience in the field?
He has eight years of clinical experience working with adults on emotional and relational issues.
What credentials and location are listed?
He holds the LMHC credential and is also an LPC. He practices in New York and is licensed in New York and South Carolina.
Which languages are supported for sessions?
Sessions are offered in English.
Does he work with international clients?
International clients are not currently accepted.
What session formats are offered?
Sessions are available via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to fit different schedules and needs.
How are costs and scheduling handled?
Costs vary by location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time. To begin, select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyGottman MethodJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

8+ years

Licensed in

New York, South Carolina

Languages

English