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LC Portrait of Dr. Lita Carvalho

Dr. Lita Carvalho

Experienced LMFT focused on practical change

LMFT California

Experience
20 years in practice
Focus areas
Stress, Anxiety, Addictions, Relationship
Approaches
Gottman Method, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
Languages
English

About Lita

Dr. Lita Carvalho welcomes people who are feeling overwhelmed by stress, anxiety, depression, addiction, grief, trauma, or challenges with intimacy and self‑esteem.

Background and approach

She also helps with parenting strain, sleep and eating problems, career stress, ADHD, and compassion fatigue. Dr.

Carvalho is a California licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) with 20 years of clinical experience. Her sessions are grounded in a client-centered style.

She listens first and then works with each person to set clear, practical goals. Sessions focus on small, manageable steps that build skills for coping, emotion regulation, and healthier communication.

Dr. Carvalho draws on approaches such as Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to address patterns that keep someone stuck.

She also uses Attachment-Based ideas to explore how early relationships affect current struggles. The Gottman Method appears among her clinical approaches and can inform how she looks at relationship patterns.

She explains options plainly and adjusts methods to fit a person’s life and priorities. People can expect a collaborative pace, homework when it helps, and an emphasis on skills that transfer into day-to-day routines.

Dr. Carvalho practices in California and offers sessions using video calls, phone, live chat, or text messaging.

She speaks English and combines two decades of clinical work with research training in biophysics to bring both practical and analytical perspectives to therapy.

How therapeutic approaches translate to online care

Dr. Carvalho commonly uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) to help people notice difficult thoughts and choose actions that match their values. ACT is useful for anxiety, depression, and life changes where behavior shifts matter. She also draws on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) to identify unhelpful thinking patterns and practice new coping skills for mood, sleep, and stress. Attachment-Based Therapy informs work on relationship patterns and emotional needs by exploring how early bonds shape current responses.

Finding the right approach is collaborative. The therapist will talk with each person about goals, past experiences, and what methods feel most useful. Together they decide which techniques to try and adjust the plan as progress is made or needs change.

Online sessions are offered by video calls, phone, live chat, or text-based messaging to fit different needs. Video is well suited for longer work and visual connection. Phone sessions can be a simpler check-in or easier when bandwidth is limited. Live chat and text messaging allow shorter, frequent touchpoints and can fit around busy schedules. These options make it easier to keep therapy consistent while balancing work, family, and daily life.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does she address?
She works with stress, anxiety, depression, addictions, trauma, grief, intimacy and self‑esteem issues, ADHD, parenting challenges, and many related concerns.
How would you describe her therapy style?
The approach is client-centered and collaborative, with an emphasis on clear goals, practical skills, and a steady pace set by the client.
What is her clinical background and experience?
Dr. Carvalho has 20 years of experience in mental health and brings research training in biophysics to her clinical work.
What credentials and location are listed for this therapist?
She is a California licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) practicing in California.
Which languages are supported and can she work internationally?
Sessions are offered in English, and she does not accept international clients at this time.
What session formats are available?
Sessions can be conducted via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging according to client preference.
How are fees and billing handled?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with this therapist?
Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions based on the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

LGBTFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHearing impairedHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTrichotillomaniaVisually impairedWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyGottman MethodImago Relationship TherapyJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

20+ years

Licensed in

California

Languages

English