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Dr. Paula Alvarez

Experienced LCSW focused on practical change

LCSW Missouri

Experience
35 years in practice
Focus areas
Stress, Anxiety, Trauma and abuse, Anger
Approaches
Gottman Method, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
Languages
English

About Paula

Dr. Paula Alvarez helps people who are worn out by stress, anxiety, grief, or big life changes.

Background and approach

She offers straightforward care for depression, anger, addictions, parenting strain, relationship worries, and questions about identity and purpose. Her style is practical and down-to-earth, aimed at easing daily burdens and restoring a sense of direction.

She has 35 years of clinical experience and holds the LCSW credential. Dr.

Alvarez has worked across locked and outpatient mental health settings and has supported people through recovery, trauma-related symptoms, and issues that come with aging and caregiving. She brings experience with cultural diversity and with people facing immigration or end-of-life concerns.

In sessions she uses approaches that match each person’s needs. That can mean collaborative, person-centered conversations that follow the client’s lead.

It can also mean skill-based work such as cognitive behavioral techniques, acceptance and commitment ideas, or elements of Dialectical Behavior Therapy when emotional regulation is the focus. Dr.

Alvarez also uses relationship-focused methods including the Gottman Method when relationship patterns are a concern. She offers practical tools like homework, reading suggestions, and brief solution-focused steps for clients who want them.

Her approach is to tailor interventions to what each person prefers and needs. She provides care from Missouri and communicates in English.

International clients may be accepted. To begin, a simple matching questionnaire and scheduling step connects people with her for video, phone, chat, or text-based work.

How therapy approaches translate to online care

Dr. Alvarez uses the Gottman Method to address relationship patterns and communication. In plain terms, this means looking at how people interact and learning new ways to listen, respond, and rebuild trust when conflicts or intimacy issues arise.

She also draws on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, which focuses on clarifying values and building small actions that match those values. ACT can help with anxiety, depression, and feeling stuck by teaching practical ways to notice thoughts and move toward meaningful goals.

Finding the right approach is part of the work together. The therapist will ask about goals, preferences, and everyday life to decide whether a relationship focus, ACT strategies, CBT tools, or a mix fits best. That decision is collaborative and can change as progress is made.

Online sessions are offered as video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging. Video lets people use body language and visual cues, phone sessions can fit a break at work or require less bandwidth, live chat and messaging are useful for shorter check-ins or when writing feels easier. These options make it simpler to fit therapy into a busy life and to continue work between sessions.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she help with?
She works with stress, anxiety, depression, bipolar symptoms, trauma and abuse, addictions, relationship and intimacy issues, parenting concerns, grief, and life transitions.
What is her therapeutic style like?
Her style is client-centered and practical. She blends collaborative talk with skill-building approaches such as CBT, ACT, and DBT techniques when helpful.
How much experience does she have?
She brings 35 years of experience in mental health settings, including work in locked and outpatient facilities and group treatment programs.
What credentials and location are listed?
She holds the LCSW credential and practices out of Missouri with background in other states.
In which languages can sessions be conducted?
Sessions are offered in English, and international clients are accepted.
What session formats are available?
She offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to fit different schedules and needs.
How does pricing work?
Cost varies with location and therapist arrangements; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
How do I get started?
Click the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyTrauma and abuseAnger managementBipolar disorderDepression

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesSelf esteemCareer difficultiesCoping with life changesCoachingADHD

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Gottman MethodHypnotherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

35+ years

Licensed in

California, Missouri, Illinois

Languages

English