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Shama Joshi

Compassionate, practical therapy for everyday life

LCSW Illinois

Experience
9 years in practice
Focus areas
Stress, Anxiety, Relationship, Depression
Approaches
Gottman Method, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
Languages
English

About Shama

Shama Joshi is a licensed clinical social worker (LCSW) in Illinois who helps people manage stress, anxiety, depression, ADHD, and relationship difficulties. She writes in clear, straightforward language and focuses on practical steps clients can use day to day.

Background and approach

Her style is collaborative and respectful, aimed at making therapy feel manageable for someone juggling work, family, or life changes. Shama centers sessions on each person's lived experience and cultural background.

She pays attention to how identity, workplace demands, and past relationships shape current struggles. Conversations often include simple skill-building for coping, communication, and emotional regulation rather than long lectures or abstract theory.

Her work draws on several evidence-based approaches, including the Gottman Method for relationship patterns, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to clarify values and reduce avoidance, and Attachment-Based Therapy to address early relational wounds. She also uses client-centered listening and cognitive behavioral tools to help shift unhelpful thinking and behavior.

Sessions are practical and goal-focused. Clients can expect to practice new ways of responding, try small experiments between meetings, and track progress over time.

Shama also supports people dealing with adoption and foster care issues, aging concerns, caregiver stress, neurodiversity, and challenges such as codependency, communication problems, and divorce. Her nine years of clinical experience guide a steady approach that balances warmth with structure.

People who want clear next steps and someone who listens without judgment may find her approach useful.

Approaches that guide online sessions and what to expect

Shama draws on the Gottman Method to look at recurring relationship patterns and communication habits, helping clients learn specific practices to reduce conflict and increase connection. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) is used to clarify what matters most to a person and to practice small, values-based actions when difficult thoughts or feelings show up. Attachment-Based Therapy helps identify how early relationships shape current reactions and supports new ways of relating in close relationships.

Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will talk with the client about goals, preferences, and what has or hasn't helped before. Together they decide which methods to try and adjust the plan as progress is tracked and new needs arise.

Online sessions are offered by video calls, phone, live chat, or text-based messaging to increase flexibility. Video lets visual cues guide conversations, phone can be easier when bandwidth is limited, and messaging or live chat support brief check-ins or ongoing reflection between sessions. These options make it simpler to fit therapy into a workday, manage energy levels, or keep a steady practice without long commutes.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does she focus on?
She works with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship issues, coping with life changes, and ADHD, plus areas like adoption and foster care, caregiver stress, and divorce.
What is her therapy style like?
Her approach is collaborative and practical, combining listening with concrete skill-building. Sessions aim to improve communication, coping, and emotional regulation.
How much clinical experience does she have?
She has nine years of experience as a therapist working with a wide range of concerns and life transitions.
What credentials and location are listed?
She holds an LCSW, licensed in Illinois, and practices with that credential in the state.
Which languages are supported and can she see international clients?
Sessions are offered in English. She does not accept international clients at this time.
What session formats are available?
Sessions are offered by video calls, phone, live chat, or text-based messaging to fit different schedules and preferences.
How does payment and cost work?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; therapy is provided through a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
How do I start working with this therapist?
Select the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions based on therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Gottman MethodMindfulness TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

9+ years

Licensed in

Illinois

Languages

English