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Thomas Buckner

Compassionate, practical therapy for life’s hard moments

LCPC Illinois

Experience
15 years in practice
Focus areas
Trauma and abuse, Anger, Self esteem
Approaches
Gottman Method, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
Languages
English

About Thomas

Thomas Buckner, LCPC, helps people who are facing depression, trauma, mood challenges, anxiety, addiction, and struggles with self-esteem. He offers steady, direct support for stress, anger, and life changes.

Background and approach

His approach is practical and compassionate. He writes and talks in plain terms to make starting therapy less confusing.

He frames sessions around what matters most to each person. That can mean learning new ways to manage strong emotions, practicing clearer communication, or building routines that stabilize mood.

He uses a blend of methods, choosing tools that suit the problem at hand rather than following a single script. Thomas draws on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to help people notice painful thoughts without getting driven by them.

He also uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to identify unhelpful thinking and try different behaviors. Attachment-based ideas shape how he looks at relationship patterns and trust issues.

Clients can expect short-term skills work and longer-term exploration depending on their needs. He emphasizes collaboration so people leave with concrete steps they can use between sessions.

He also supports work on career stress, caregiver strain, blended family challenges, and identity concerns. He has 15 years of experience as a licensed clinical professional counselor in Illinois.

Sessions are offered in English and he works with people across a range of life stages and challenges. He accepts international clients and offers several online formats to fit different schedules.

Approaches that translate well to online care

Thomas blends Gottman Method ideas with Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and Attachment-Based Therapy to address relationship patterns, painful feelings, and trust issues. The Gottman Method offers structured ways to notice communication habits and build better interaction skills. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy focuses on noticing thoughts and choosing values-guided action rather than getting stuck in unhelpful thinking. Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early relationship patterns shape current connections and helps people try new ways of relating.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. He treats therapy as a collaboration and will help identify which methods fit a person’s goals and life situation. Together a plan is shaped that may combine skills practice, emotional processing, and behavior changes to match what the person wants to achieve.

Online work uses video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to make therapy more flexible. Video allows for face-to-face conversation and exercises. Phone calls can fit a tighter schedule or lower bandwidth. Live chat and text are useful for brief check-ins, coaching between sessions, or when someone prefers written communication. These options help people keep therapy consistent around work, caregiving, or travel.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Thomas help with?
He supports people dealing with trauma and abuse, depression, bipolar disorder, anxiety, addictions, ADHD, relationship and family stress, career strain, and related issues such as abandonment and chronic pain.
How would you describe his therapeutic style?
Sessions are practical and compassionate. He works collaboratively, focusing on concrete skills and clearer patterns rather than abstract theory.
What is his professional background?
Thomas has 15 years of clinical experience and centers his work on helping people manage mood disorders, trauma, and everyday stressors.
What are his credentials and where is he located?
He holds an LCPC license, listed as IL LCPC, and practices from Illinois.
In which languages can I work with him?
Sessions are offered in English, and he accepts international clients.
What session formats are available?
He offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to fit different needs and schedules.
How does billing and cost work?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability and uses a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with him?
Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Trauma and abuseAnger managementSelf esteemBipolar disorderDepression

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsLGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsCareer difficultiesCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyGottman MethodJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

15+ years

Licensed in

Illinois

Languages

English