FindGottmanTherapists

The therapist listings come from BetterHelp. We will earn a commission if you sign up through our link, at no cost to you.

SS Portrait of Steven Smith

Steven Smith

Relationship-focused therapist helping individuals navigate change

LMFT California

Experience
10 years in practice
Focus areas
Stress, Anxiety, Relationship, Trauma and abuse
Approaches
Gottman Method, Client-Centered Therapy
Languages
English

About Steven

Steven Smith is a licensed marriage and family therapist practicing in California. He focuses on relationships, stress, anxiety, depression, trauma, and substance concerns.

Background and approach

Steven also helps people facing issues with intimacy, parenting pressures, ADHD, grief, and identity questions. He uses an approach that centers the person in front of him.

Sessions begin by listening closely to what matters most to the client. Goals are shaped together so work in therapy matches real life needs.

Steven draws on the Gottman Method when addressing relationship patterns and communication habits. He blends that with client-centered work and existential ideas to help people find meaning and make clearer choices.

Mindfulness and motivational interviewing are tools he often brings into sessions. Mindfulness helps with grounding during stress and anxiety.

Motivational interviewing supports change when someone feels stuck or uncertain about next steps. With ten years of clinical experience and a California Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist credential, he has worked with a wide range of concerns.

People meet him for short-term problem-focused work or longer exploration of life direction and coping skills.

Approaches for relationships and personal change online

Steven frequently uses the Gottman Method to address relationship patterns and improve communication between partners; this approach focuses on practical exercises and clearer dialogue to reduce conflict and build connection. He also uses Client-Centered Therapy which emphasizes listening, empathy, and working at the client’s pace to set meaningful goals and make changes that fit everyday life. Existential Therapy appears in his work when people are wrestling with life direction, meaning, or big decisions; it helps name values and clarify choices.

Finding the right mix of approaches is a collaborative process. The therapist will talk with each person about goals, preferences, and what feels most useful, then tailor sessions to those needs. Together they decide which methods to try and adjust them as progress is made.

Online formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to fit different schedules and needs. Video can be useful for full sessions and visual cues. Phone works well when bandwidth is limited or when a shorter check-in is needed. Live chat and text allow brief updates, reflections, and flexible communication between appointments. These options make it easier to keep continuity of care while juggling work, parenting, and daily life.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Steven commonly address?
He helps people with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, bipolar disorder, addictions, relationship and intimacy issues, parenting strain, grief, ADHD, and related concerns.
How would you describe his therapy style?
He takes a person-centered, collaborative approach. Sessions focus on listening first, setting shared goals, and using practical strategies that fit daily life.
What kind of clinical background does he have?
He has ten years of experience working with a range of issues and life situations, drawing on varied therapeutic approaches to match each person's needs.
What are his credentials and where is he based?
He is a California Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) practicing in California.
Which languages are sessions offered in?
Sessions are offered in English.
What session formats are available?
He offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging for ongoing work and check-ins.
How does pricing work for sessions?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions are provided through a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with him?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesTrauma and abuseBipolar disorderDepression

Additional focus areas

Avoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMood disordersMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSocial anxiety and phobiaTrichotillomania

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyExistential TherapyGottman MethodMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

10+ years

Licensed in

California

Languages

English