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Tammara Rood

Therapist focused on relationships and coping

LMFT New York

Experience
14 years in practice
Focus areas
Stress, Anxiety, Family, Parenting
Approaches
Gottman Method, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
Languages
English

About Tammara

Tammara Rood is a licensed marriage and family therapist in New York who helps people facing stress, anxiety, relationship strain, parenting challenges, and grief. She brings 14 years of experience to conversations about self-esteem, motivation, addiction, and coping with life changes.

Background and approach

She creates a calm space where people can speak honestly and feel heard. Her approach is practical and relationship-focused.

She draws on the Gottman Method for work on communication and connection, and uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to help people live by their values. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy tools are used to spot unhelpful thoughts and try new behaviors.

Tammara centers attachment ideas in sessions to understand how early bonds affect current patterns. She uses client-centered listening to make sure each person’s goals shape the work.

Sessions focus on small, doable steps that fit everyday life. She has supported people dealing with trauma, intimacy concerns, sleep problems, anger, and mood disorders including depression and bipolar symptoms.

Additional focuses include attachment wounds, blended family stress, caregiver strain, and issues around commitment and communication. Tammara practices in New York and holds an LMFT, which stands for Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist.

People meet her when they want structured skills, clearer communication, and steadier emotional responses.

Therapeutic approaches and online options that fit your life

She blends the Gottman Method with Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and attachment-based ideas to guide online work. The Gottman Method focuses on practical ways to improve communication and reduce conflict, which can help people wanting clearer conversations and less reactivity. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy helps people notice painful thoughts and still make choices that match their values, useful for anxiety, depression, and life transitions. Attachment-Based Therapy looks at early relationship patterns to understand why certain responses come up now and to develop more supported ways of relating.

Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will listen to what matters to you, discuss options, and try methods that match your goals and preferences. Over time the plan is adjusted based on what helps most in your daily life.

Online formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging, offering flexibility for different routines. Video calls allow face-to-face interaction for teaching skills and practicing conversations. Phone sessions can work well when bandwidth is limited or when you need to fit a session into a short break. Live chat and text messaging make it easier to check in between sessions or to connect when typing feels easier than speaking. These options help make regular work on goals more manageable.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she commonly address?
She works with stress, anxiety, depression, bipolar symptoms, trauma and abuse, relationship strain, parenting and family conflict, addiction, grief, sleep troubles, anger, and career challenges.
What is her therapeutic style like?
She keeps sessions practical and supportive, focusing on clear communication and small behavior changes. Sessions are shaped by the client's goals and paced to match what feels doable.
How much clinical experience does she have?
She has 14 years of professional experience working with individuals on relationship and personal challenges.
What credentials and location are listed?
She holds an LMFT, which means Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, and practices in New York.
Which languages are offered and can international clients work with her?
Sessions are offered in English. International clients are not currently accepted.
What session formats does she use?
She offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to fit different needs and schedules.
How is cost handled for sessions?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with her?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyFamily conflictsParenting issuesSelf esteemADHD

Also works with

AddictionsRelationship issuesTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changesCompassion fatigue

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Gottman MethodMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

14+ years

Licensed in

New York

Languages

English