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Tracy Rider

Compassionate, practical therapy for stress and trauma

LMHC New York

Experience
10 years in practice
Focus areas
Stress, Anxiety, Trauma and abuse, Anger
Approaches
Gottman Method, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
Languages
English

About Tracy

Tracy Rider is a New York licensed clinical mental health counselor (LMHC) with ten years of experience. She helps people cope with stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, anger, low self‑esteem, and life changes.

Background and approach

Tracy meets people where they are and focuses on clear, practical steps that fit each person's situation. She uses approaches such as the Gottman Method alongside Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and EMDR to address emotional pain and relationship patterns.

Sessions are conversational and goal‑oriented, with room to process tough memories and build new skills. Tracy adapts techniques to what feels most useful for the client.

Her background includes work supporting veterans and community counseling, plus advanced study in trauma and dissociation. This experience shapes a steady, realistic style that values safety and pacing.

She also brings a life coaching perspective that emphasizes personal agency and practical change. Tracy often helps people sort out communication problems, attachment concerns, chronic illness challenges, and responses to disaster or first responder stress.

She also supports people dealing with guilt, shame, and questions about life purpose. When beginning work together she focuses on a clear plan and manageable steps.

Conversations move at a pace that honors readiness and strength. The emphasis is on building skills that make daily life easier and more meaningful.

Approaches that shape online care

Tracy often blends Gottman Method ideas with Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to help people notice patterns and learn new ways of relating and responding. Gottman Method concepts are used to identify harmful interaction cycles and build practical repair skills, while CBT focuses on changing unhelpful thoughts and behaviors that maintain distress.

She also uses Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) for people who carry painful memories that keep causing strong reactions. EMDR aims to reduce the intensity of those memories so they interfere less with daily life and coping.

Finding the right approach is part of the work together. Tracy will talk with each person about goals, symptoms, and preferences and then try methods that fit. That choice is collaborative and can shift as progress unfolds.

Online therapy options include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text‑based messaging. Video is good for face‑to‑face conversation and EMDR work when both clinician and client agree. Phone sessions use less bandwidth and can be easier to fit into a work break. Live chat and messaging are useful for brief check‑ins, between‑session support, or when typing helps people organize thoughts. These formats make it easier to get consistent care across busy schedules and varied needs.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does this therapist address?
Tracy focuses on stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, anger, self‑esteem, and coping with life changes. She also works with attachment issues, chronic illness or pain, communication problems, and post‑traumatic stress.
How would you describe the therapy style here?
The approach is conversational and practical, with attention to pacing and safety. Sessions combine talking, skill practice, and memory‑work when appropriate.
What kind of experience does the therapist have?
The clinician has ten years of professional experience and a background that includes community and veteran support work plus postgraduate study in trauma and dissociation.
What credentials and location are listed?
The clinician holds the New York Licensed Mental Health Counselor credential (LMHC) and practices out of New York.
Which languages are supported and can international clients connect?
Sessions are offered in English. International clients are not currently accepted.
What session formats are available?
Work can happen via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text‑based messaging. Messaging is used as a supportive supplement alongside scheduled sessions.
How does billing and cost work?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with this therapist?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button and completing a short matching questionnaire. After that you can schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Therapeutic approaches

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Existential TherapyEye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Gottman MethodNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

10+ years

Licensed in

New York

Languages

English