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Janet Nealer

Practical, experienced therapist focused on relationships

MD, LCMFT Maryland

Experience
40 years in practice
Focus areas
Stress, Anxiety, Relationship, Family
Approaches
Gottman Method, Attachment-Based Therapy
Languages
English

About Janet

Janet Nealer is a Maryland-based therapist who helps people manage stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, relationship and intimacy concerns, and struggles with addiction. She brings a steady, practical style and encourages clients to use their own strengths when facing hard moments.

Background and approach

Her approach is respectful and straightforward, aimed at helping people take the next steps toward a more fulfilling life. With 40 years of experience, Janet draws on several well-known approaches to tailor care to each person.

She uses Attachment-Based ideas to look at how early connections shape current relationships. She applies Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to help people notice and change unhelpful thinking and behavior patterns.

Emotionally-Focused and Client-Centered methods shape conversations so feelings are understood and respected. Janet frames sessions as a partnership.

She listens first to understand each person’s story, then works with them to set practical goals. Sessions include clear steps and coping tools that can be tried between meetings.

She emphasizes building on strengths and small, manageable changes. Her background supports a wide range of concerns, including parenting strain, caregiver stress, aging-related issues, attachment and commitment challenges, communication problems, and the effects of chronic illness or pain.

She also addresses complex problems such as dissociation, domestic violence, and co-morbid conditions. Janet offers services in English and accepts international clients.

She combines her long experience with a calm, collaborative manner that focuses on what will help each person move forward.

Approaches and online options for relationship and emotional work

Janet uses Attachment-Based Therapy to look at how early bonds shape current relationship patterns and emotional reactions. This helps when connection, trust, or attachment issues are causing repeated stress. She also draws on the Gottman Method to focus on communication habits and practical skills that support healthier interactions and reduce conflict in close relationships.

She uses Client-Centered therapy to create a space where each person’s perspective guides the work. Finding the right mix of approaches is part of the process. The therapist will collaborate with each person to choose methods that match their needs, goals, and preferences, and will adjust the plan as progress unfolds.

Online formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging. Video sessions let people work face to face without travel. Phone sessions can be easier when bandwidth is low or a shorter check-in is needed. Live chat and text-based messaging offer flexible, ongoing check-ins between meetings. These options make it simpler to fit therapy into a busy life and to continue work across different locations or schedules.

Frequently asked questions

What problems can Janet help with?
She supports people dealing with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, relationship and intimacy challenges, addiction, sleeping problems, parenting strain, and many related concerns.
How would you describe her therapy style?
Her style is collaborative and straightforward. She listens first, then helps set practical goals and tools to try between sessions.
How much experience does she bring?
She has 40 years of professional work experience and draws on that background in shaping care and treatment planning.
What credentials and location are listed?
She holds an MD and is an LCMFT and practices in Maryland.
Are sessions offered in other languages or internationally?
Sessions are offered in English, and she accepts international clients.
What session formats are available?
People can meet by video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging according to preference.
How are costs handled?
Costs vary with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with her?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a session based on the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseDepression

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficulties

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyEye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Gottman MethodHypnotherapyJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

40+ years

Licensed in

Maryland

Languages

English