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Dr. Kristi Hottenstein

Experienced counselor focused on practical change

LPC, LPCC Michigan

Experience
20 years in practice
Focus areas
Stress, Anxiety, Relationship, Family
Approaches
Gottman Method, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
Languages
English

About Kristi

Dr. Kristi Hottenstein is a licensed professional counselor with two decades of experience.

Background and approach

She holds a doctorate in higher education administration and a master’s in Counseling, and she practices in Michigan. Kristi focuses on meeting people where they are and helping them move forward at a pace that feels right.

She works with individuals and couples on issues like anxiety, depression, relationship strain, addiction, grief, and stress. She also supports people dealing with ADHD, career transitions, caregiver stress, and body image concerns.

Her work includes coaching around college selection when that fits a person's goals. Kristi uses a mix of practical tools and conversational work.

She draws from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to help people notice unhelpful patterns and try new behaviors. She also uses Client-Centered methods to keep sessions focused on each person’s priorities and strengths.

When relationships are a concern, she integrates elements of the Gottman Method to help partners talk about conflicts more constructively and rebuild connection. Dialectical Behavior Therapy skills appear when people need concrete tools for emotion regulation and distress tolerance.

Her sessions tend to be straightforward and collaborative. She encourages self-awareness and personal responsibility while adapting methods to each person’s needs.

Over time the focus is on usable strategies that make daily life easier and more manageable.

How these approaches translate to online work

Kristi commonly blends the Gottman Method, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, and Client-Centered techniques in online sessions. Gottman-informed work focuses on improving communication, reducing repetitive conflict, and rebuilding connection between partners. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice thoughts and feelings without getting stuck and clarifies values to guide meaningful action. Client-Centered methods keep the therapist attuned to each person’s priorities and pace, creating space for people to lead the conversation.

Figuring out the right mix of approaches is part of the process. Kristi collaborates with each person to choose methods that match their goals, comfort level, and the challenges they bring. She checks in regularly and adjusts strategies as progress or needs change so therapy stays useful and relevant.

Online formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to provide flexibility. Video is useful for visual cues and longer sessions, phone calls can be easier when bandwidth is limited, live chat supports shorter check-ins, and messaging lets people share updates between sessions. These options make it easier to fit therapy into busy schedules and different life situations.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she help with?
She addresses stress, anxiety, depression, relationship worries, addictions, grief, and many other issues listed in her specialties.
What is her therapeutic style like?
She uses a practical, collaborative approach that blends talking and skills practice to help people make changes that fit their lives.
How long has she practiced counseling?
Kristi has about 20 years of counseling experience and has worked in clinical and coaching roles during that time.
What credentials and region are listed for this therapist?
She holds LPC and LPCC credentials and practices in Michigan.
Which languages are supported for sessions?
Sessions are offered in English.
What session formats are available?
She offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging.
How are costs handled for sessions?
Costs vary with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with this therapist?
Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsSelf esteemDepression

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Existential TherapyGottman MethodMindfulness TherapyNarrative TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

20+ years

Licensed in

Michigan, Texas, Arizona, California, New Jersey, Virginia

Languages

English