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Dr. Lucy Flitton

Practical support for anxiety and life transitions

BACP, NCPS United Kingdom

Experience
17 years in practice
Focus areas
Stress, Anxiety, Addictions, Trauma and abuse
Approaches
Gottman Method, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
Languages
English

About Lucy

Dr Lucy Flitton offers calm, straightforward support for people feeling overwhelmed by anxious thoughts, low mood or repeating relationship patterns. She speaks plainly with clients who want more clarity, steadiness and practical ways to cope.

Background and approach

Lucy writes in a warm, direct way and aims to help people take the first step toward change. With 17 years of experience, she draws on a mix of psychological ideas to match each person's needs.

Her approach centres on listening, helping people make sense of patterns, and teaching skills they can use day to day. Sessions can include talking through difficult memories, developing new habits, and practising ways to manage strong emotions.

Lucy works with issues such as stress, anxiety, depression, addictions, grief and problems with sleep and self-esteem. She also supports people coping with parenting challenges, career strain, relationship and intimacy-related concerns, and life transitions.

Additional areas of focus include ADHD, body image, chronic illness, and communication difficulties. Her methods combine well-known psychological approaches with attention to how feelings show up in the body and how language shapes experience.

This means sessions often mix practical exercises, reflective conversation and brief experiential work to build resilience and reduce reactivity. Lucy is registered with BACP and NCPS and practices from the United Kingdom.

Sessions are offered in English and she accepts international clients. She aims to help people feel steadier, set clearer boundaries and reconnect with a sense of purpose.

Approaches that translate well to online therapy

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, or ACT, helps people notice difficult thoughts and feelings without getting stuck in them. It focuses on values and small, practical steps so people can act in ways that matter to them even when emotions feel loud. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, CBT, looks at the links between thoughts, feelings and behaviour and uses short exercises to change unhelpful patterns and improve mood. Attachment-Based Therapy pays attention to how past relationships shape current responses and helps people build new ways of relating to themselves and others.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will discuss options with the client and decide together which methods suit the person's needs, goals and preferences. That collaborative decision is reviewed as therapy progresses to make sure the approach stays useful.

Online therapy offers practical benefits such as fitting sessions around work or family life, using a phone when bandwidth is low, or choosing text-based messaging for brief check-ins between calls. Video sessions allow face-to-face conversation and shared exercises, phone sessions can be easier when not on camera, and messaging provides ongoing contact and quick tools between meetings. Many registered or accredited professionals use these formats to make therapy more flexible and accessible for busy lives.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she help with?
She helps people with stress, anxiety, depression, addictions, grief and sleep problems, as well as relationship and intimacy-related issues and many related concerns.
What is her therapeutic style like?
Her style blends listening with practical tools. Sessions mix talk, reflection and exercises to manage emotions and change unhelpful patterns.
How much experience does she have?
She has 17 years of professional experience working in psychological care and counselling settings.
Which credentials and location are listed?
She is listed with BACP and NCPS and practices from the United Kingdom.
Can I work with her if I live abroad or am an international client?
Yes. She accepts international clients and offers sessions to people outside the United Kingdom.
What session formats are available?
Sessions are offered by video calls, phone sessions, live chat or text-based messaging to suit different needs and rhythms.
How does payment and cost work?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.
How do I get started with therapy?
Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

LGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)Divorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMood disordersNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPhobiasPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centred TherapyCognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT)Existential TherapyEye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Gottman MethodJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family SystemsSystemic Therapy

Experience

17+ years

Registered with

BACP, NCPS

Languages

English