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Norbert Adorjan

Compassionate relationship-focused counselling

BACP United Kingdom

Experience
3 years in practice
Focus areas
Addictions, Relationship, Family
Approaches
Gottman Method, Attachment-Based Therapy
Languages
English, Hungarian, Romanian

About Norbert

Norbert Adorjan is a counsellor who focuses on practical, relationship-oriented work. He draws on approaches such as the Gottman Method and attachment-based ideas to help people sort through connection problems and emotional wounds.

Background and approach

Norbert holds BACP registration and has three years of professional experience in the United Kingdom. He helps people dealing with addiction, anxiety, depression, grief and stress.

He also supports those facing relationship pain, parenting strain, family conflict, intimacy concerns and career pressure. His additional focus areas include issues such as abandonment, codependency and fertility worries.

Sessions are shaped around what each person needs. Norbert uses client-centred listening to understand where someone is starting from.

He combines that with practical techniques from cognitive behavioural work and emotionally-focused therapy when helpful. He aims for clear, respectful conversations and simple goals.

That might mean learning new ways to manage strong emotions, changing unhelpful thinking patterns, or practising different ways of repairing trust and closeness. Norbert welcomes people who speak English, Hungarian or Romanian and works with adults in the UK.

He encourages those who are nervous about starting therapy to take the next step, offering steady support and straightforward guidance to make progress. Background and approach: With three years of practice he has worked with a range of concerns linked to trauma, addiction and relationship stress.

His style is warm and direct, prioritising safety and understanding before moving on to skills and changes. Norbert will tailor conversations and any plan to the person in front of him, adjusting pace and focus as needed.

How relationship-focused approaches work online

Attachment-based therapy looks at how early connections shape current feelings and reactions. Online sessions can help people notice attachment patterns, build emotional safety and work through abandonment or trust issues in their relationships.

The Gottman Method concentrates on how partners interact and repair conflict. In an online setting it can be used to learn practical skills for communication, reduce repeated negative cycles and practise small changes that improve closeness over time.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will talk through goals and preferences and suggest which methods might fit best. Together they will try an approach, review progress and adapt the plan as needed so the work stays relevant to the client's needs.

Online formats offer practical flexibility. Video calls let people read tone and body language during conversations. Phone sessions work well when bandwidth is limited or a shorter check-in is needed. Live chat and text-based messaging are useful for frequent touchpoints, brief reflections or when someone prefers writing to speaking. These options help fit therapy into busy lives and different routines.

Frequently asked questions

What problems does he help with?
He supports people with addictions, relationship and family problems, trauma and abuse, anxiety, depression, grief and stress. He also covers parenting strain, intimacy concerns, eating issues and career-related stress.
What is his therapeutic style like?
Sessions are grounded in client-centred listening with practical tools from CBT and emotionally-focused approaches when needed. Conversations aim to be respectful, straightforward and goal-oriented.
How much experience does he have?
He has three years of professional practice working in the United Kingdom with a variety of emotional and relationship concerns.
What credentials and location are listed?
He is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and practices in the United Kingdom.
Which languages are supported?
Sessions are offered in English, Hungarian and Romanian.
Are international clients accepted?
International clients are not currently accepted; he works with people based in the United Kingdom.
What session formats are available?
He offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text-based messaging to suit different schedules and needs.
How are fees and getting started handled?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability and sessions are provided via a subscription that can be cancelled at any time. To begin, select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire and then schedule according to availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

AddictionsRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseSelf esteem

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesDepressionCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centred TherapyCognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Gottman MethodMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingPsychodynamic Therapy

Experience

3+ years

Registered with

BACP

Languages

English, Hungarian, Romanian