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Dr. Penny Brower

Practical relationship and life-change therapy

LCPC Illinois

Experience
34 years in practice
Focus areas
Stress, Anxiety, Relationship, Self esteem
Approaches
Gottman Method, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
Languages
English

About Penny

Dr. Penny Brower uses practical, relational approaches to help people handle stress, anxiety, relationship strain, and life changes.

Background and approach

She is an Illinois Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor and brings 34 years of experience to her work. Her style is straightforward and compassionate, focused on helping people make choices that fit their values and daily life.

She often draws on the Gottman Method to address relationship patterns and attachment-based ideas to look at how early bonds shape current reactions. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy are used to spot unhelpful thinking and to build skills for living a meaningful life.

Sessions emphasize clear, doable steps rather than jargon-filled explanations. Her background includes in-home work with complex families, roles in community mental health, and eight years with the Air National Guard developing programs aimed at reducing suicide risk and increasing resilience.

That range of settings informs a flexible, real-world approach to problems like addiction, trauma, grief, and intimacy-related issues. People who meet with her can expect a collaborative process.

She invites feedback about what helps and what does not so therapy can be adjusted. The goal is to equip clients with tools for calmer reactions, stronger connections, and clearer choices.

Dr. Brower speaks English and practices from Illinois.

She frames concerns in human terms rather than labels, and she focuses on what makes life more livable for each person she meets.

Therapeutic approaches for online relationship and life work

Dr. Brower often uses the Gottman Method to look at how couples communicate and manage conflict, offering concrete exercises to improve connection and reduce repetitive arguments. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice unhelpful thoughts and commit to actions that match their values, which can ease anxiety and increase meaning. Attachment-Based Therapy explores early relationship patterns to understand why certain triggers and defenses come up now, which is useful for intimacy and trust issues.

Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. She will listen to your goals, try methods that fit your situation, and adjust plans based on what actually helps. That way the work stays practical and personally relevant rather than theoretical.

Online sessions are available by video call, phone, live chat, or text-based messaging to fit different schedules and needs. Video calls let people work face-to-face when visual cues matter. Phone sessions can be an easier option when bandwidth is limited or you prefer not to be on camera. Live chat and text messaging are useful for short check-ins or ongoing support between longer sessions. These options make it possible to maintain continuity of care while fitting therapy into busy lives.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does she address?
She helps with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship issues, self esteem, ADHD, addictions, trauma, grief, intimacy-related concerns, anger, and coping with life changes.
What is her therapeutic style like?
Her work is collaborative and down-to-earth, combining relational methods and skill-based strategies to support clearer choices and better daily functioning.
How many years has she been practicing?
She has 34 years of clinical experience working in in-home therapy, community mental health, independent practice, and program development for the Air National Guard.
What credentials and location are on record?
She is an Illinois Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor (LCPC) practicing in Illinois.
Which languages are supported and are international clients accepted?
Sessions are offered in English and international clients are not currently accepted.
What session formats are available?
She offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging for remote therapy.
How does pricing work?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin therapy with her?
Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions based on the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Gottman MethodMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family SystemsSystemic Therapy

Experience

34+ years

Licensed in

Illinois

Languages

English