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Stefan Mihailov

Practical, collaborative counselling for life changes

BACP, NCPS United Kingdom

Experience
4 years in practice
Focus areas
Relationship, Family, Depression
Approaches
Gottman Method, Attachment-Based Therapy
Languages
English, Romanian

About Stefan

Stefan Mihailov is a counsellor who focuses on helping people who feel stuck, overwhelmed or uncertain about what to do next. He aims to create a calm space where clients can talk through immediate problems and set clear, realistic goals.

Background and approach

Stefan speaks English and Romanian and works with people both in the United Kingdom and internationally. He uses a mix of approaches to match what each person needs.

Sessions draw on client-centred principles that place the person's agenda first, and on attachment ideas that look at how early bonds affect current relationships. He also uses elements of Emotionally-Focused Therapy and the Gottman Method when relationship patterns are part of the work.

Stefan has four years of professional experience and holds a Foundation Degree (with Distinction) in Integrative Counselling. He is a member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy - BACP - and of the National Counselling & Psychotherapy Society - NCPS.

These memberships are part of how he maintains professional standards and supervision. In practical terms, Stefan offers sessions online and in person.

He often helps people dealing with anxiety, depression, stress, grief, parenting strain, anger, sleep problems, addictions, and life changes. Additional areas he sometimes addresses include attachment issues, communication problems, codependency and challenges related to neurodiversity.

His work aims to increase self-awareness and uncover patterns that keep people stuck. The focus is on collaboration - listening first, then shaping work around each person's goals and pace.

Approaches that guide online sessions

Stefan commonly uses the Gottman Method to look at communication patterns and practical steps couples or individuals can take to break negative cycles. The Gottman approach focuses on clear interaction habits and rebuilding emotional connection where that is relevant.

He also uses Attachment-Based Therapy to explore how early relationships shape current behaviour and emotional needs. This helps people who want to understand why certain patterns repeat in relationships or feel difficult to change. Client-Centred Therapy forms the other main strand of his work, which means sessions follow the client's agenda and pace, with the counsellor offering empathy and reflection rather than direction.

Finding the right approach is part of the work together. Stefan will talk through your goals and try a few ways of working to see what fits. That collaborative process helps him tailor the sessions to the issues you bring and the outcomes you want to reach.

Online therapy offers practical flexibility. Video calls allow face-to-face interaction from different locations, phone sessions can be easier when video isn't convenient, live chat suits shorter check-ins, and text messaging can support ongoing reflection between sessions. These options help people fit therapy around work, family or travel commitments and make it easier to keep regular contact with a therapist or counsellor.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns can be addressed in sessions?
Stefan helps with common issues such as anxiety, depression, stress, grief and sleep problems, as well as relationship and parenting challenges and addictions. He also works with a range of additional areas like attachment issues, codependency and communication problems.
What is his therapeutic style like?
Sessions are collaborative and person-centred, with a focus on listening first and shaping work around your goals. He may draw from attachment ideas and emotionally focused work when relationships and patterns are the focus.
How much experience does he have?
He has four years of counselling experience, working in agency settings and in independent practice, both online and in person.
What credentials and location are listed for this counsellor?
He holds a Foundation Degree (with Distinction) in Integrative Counselling and is a member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and the National Counselling & Psychotherapy Society (NCPS). He practices in the United Kingdom.
Which languages are supported and can he work internationally?
Sessions are offered in English and Romanian, and he accepts international clients for online work.
What session formats are available?
Therapy is available via video calls, phone sessions, live chat or text-based messaging, and in-person appointments where appropriate.
How are fees and payments handled?
Costs vary with location and therapist availability; sessions are delivered through a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.
How do I begin if I want to work together?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsDepressionCoping with life changesADHD

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsTrauma and abuseGriefSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesCompassion fatigue

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centred TherapyEmotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyGottman MethodJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

4+ years

Registered with

BACP, NCPS

Languages

English, Romanian