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Emma Dalgleish

Practical, relationship-focused counselling

BACP United Kingdom

Experience
22 years in practice
Focus areas
Relationship, Trauma and abuse, Grief
Approaches
Gottman Method, Attachment-Based Therapy
Languages
English

About Emma

Emma Dalgleish is a BACP-registered counsellor working in the United Kingdom with 22 years of professional experience. She focuses on relationship and intimacy concerns, trauma and abuse, grief and loss, and related issues that affect daily life.

Background and approach

Emma aims to be approachable, direct, and compassionate in her work with clients. She adapts her way of working to fit the person in front of her rather than using a one-size-fits-all model.

Sessions are conversational and practical, with space to talk about feelings and to find ways forward. Emma uses the Gottman Method alongside attachment-based and client-centred approaches when these suit the situation.

Her practice pays attention to the delicate nature of sexual and intimacy problems as well as wider relational stress. She also supports people with anxiety, depression, stress, addictions and neurodiverse concerns such as autism and ADHD.

Practical matters like sleep, eating patterns, and coping with chronic illness are included in the discussion when they matter to the client. Emma describes her style as empathic, honest and non-judgemental.

She listens for what matters most and helps people clarify goals for therapy. The work can include short-term coaching or longer exploration depending on what the client prefers.

Her aim is to create a respectful space where issues can be understood and managed. People who want straightforward, warm counselling that focuses on relationships and real-life challenges may find her approach helpful.

How Emma’s approaches work online

Emma uses the Gottman Method to look at communication patterns and practical, observable interactions in relationships. This can help people who want clearer ways to talk, to reduce repeated fights, or to rebuild connection after conflict. Attachment-Based Therapy is about understanding early relationship patterns and how they affect current bonds; it helps when worry about closeness or abandonment shapes behaviour. Client-Centred Therapy focuses on listening and reflecting so the client can understand their own feelings and decide what changes to make.

Choosing the right approach is part of the work. Emma discusses goals and preferences with each person and adapts which methods she uses as therapy progresses. This is a collaborative process where clients and the therapist check what helps and change direction if needed.

Online sessions are available by video call, phone, live chat or text-based messaging to fit different schedules and needs. Video calls are useful for face-to-face conversation when visual cues matter. Phone sessions can be easier when bandwidth is limited or a shorter check-in is needed. Live chat and text messages work well for ongoing support between sessions or for people who prefer writing. These options make it easier to attend therapy around work, care duties and travel.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Emma help with?
She supports people with relationship and intimacy issues, trauma and abuse, grief, anxiety, depression and a wide range of related problems listed in her specialties.
What is her therapeutic style like?
Her style is empathic and direct. Sessions aim to be conversational and practical, with space to understand feelings and plan next steps.
How much clinical experience does she have?
Emma has 22 years of experience working in counselling and related professional roles in the United Kingdom.
What are her credentials and where is she based?
She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and practises in the United Kingdom.
Which languages and international options are available?
Sessions are offered in English. She is not currently taking clients from outside the United Kingdom.
What session formats are used?
Therapy is offered by video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to suit different needs.
How are fees handled?
Costs vary with location and therapist availability. Sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.
How do I begin if I want to work with her?
Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsLGBTFamily conflictsEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHospice and end-of-life counsellingImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaTraumatic brain injuryTrichotillomaniaVisually impairedWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centred TherapyExistential TherapyGottman MethodHypnotherapyImago Relationship TherapyJungian TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

22+ years

Registered with

BACP

Languages

English